I’ve been told we have a lot of toys…
But, you have to remember—I have 6 kids! So yes, I do have a lot of toys. And some of them are pure junk and destined for the trash can. However, most are part of a collection, slowly acquired over 20+ years—toys that have been well loved and have proven themselves worthy.
The Making of Great Preschool Toys:
What makes a toy worthy—how does a toy stand the test of time (or at least 6 kids)?
- Durable–For me the toy needs to durable (it cannot be breaking down, needing batteries, or anything else synonymous with junk).
- Open Ended–I like toys that are open-ended and ready to be fueled by imagination!
- Skill Enhancing— I especially love preschool toys that help develop motor skills, critical thinking, and language skills.
- Spans Ages and Stages–And my favorite toys grow with my kids and will be loved through different ages and stages.
Kids grow and change in amazing ways during the preschool years—and they do most of their learning through play! It makes sense to provide quality preschool toys to enhance their development and creativity. I’ve created a list of our current favorites (many were also once loved by my teenagers). These are the toys our twins came back to daily, and my son (even through kindergarten) engaged with regularly. (A few of the toys are slight modifications of toys we own—some styles and items have changed since originally purchased—i.e., my wooden toy kitchen is now 19 years old)!
Let’s Play!
Educational Toy Games and Puzzles
Why I love it: I discovered this button activity when looking for an educational toy to keep the twins busy around the age of 18 months. It felt like I hit the jack-pot! The board is large enough for 2 children to play together; it is perfect for practicing early fine motor skills, color recognition, and matching. Asher was 4 when we bought this toy, and he also loved playing with it! (Recommended Age: 18 months-4 years.
The Sneaky, Snacky Squirrel Game
Why I love it: Oh my goodness, I don’t even know where to begin with this adorable game…It has strategy (how many games for 3 and 4 year olds can say that?), counting, colors, matching, fine motor skills (the squirrel “tongs,”are amazing that come with this game), and of course–the beloved lessons of taking turns and winning/losing! If you have a preschooler–you need this game in your life!! (Recommended Ages: 3-7 years)
Why I love them: These puzzles are high quality and classic–most are very gender neutral, though some are definitely geared more for boys or girls. The farm puzzle was a huge favorite at our house! I loved seeing my kids play with the chunky animal pieces–truly the perfect first puzzle (Recommended Ages: 1-3). I’m also obsessed with the Latches Wooden Activity Board–another unique choice for little ones that helps with fine motor and language skills (Recommended: Ages 3-6). As your preschooler grows, Melissa and Doug also makes a line of 48 piece jigsaw puzzles (the entire puzzle fits nicely into a wooden frame/tray). There are a wide variety of themes available: dinosaurs, space, trucks, ballerinas, mermaids, pirates, jungles, horses, bugs, ocean–you name it, if your kid is into something, they probably have a puzzle for it (Recommended Ages: 4-6). All would be beautiful, timeless (affordable) educational toy gifts!
Imaginative Play
Why I love them: If I have a group of children (say a small army of nieces, nephews, neighborhood kids–and my own gaggle of little people) playing at our house, I can guarantee they will all be decked out in dress-up clothes in a matter of 5 minutes. Kids LOVE to play dress up! I remember loving to play dress up! Playing dress-up fuels pretend play–which of course, is great for language skills, creativity, and problem solving. Pretend play is the whimsical essence of childhood and early learning! Melissa and Doug have a great collection of dress-up costumes. My girls, in particular, have always been drawn to Disney characters/princesses.–(Recommended Ages: 2-7 years)
Why I love them: Toy kitchens are a staple of imaginative play at our house. My wooden kitchen (an old Pottery Barn set) has been through countless feasts–still loved after 20+ years. Toy kitchens give kids a chance to play out what they see modeled in daily life–with an added bit of creative flair. There are countless toy kitchens on the market–everyone has their own preference.
Why I love it: Our toy mailbox has been part of many adventures! Kids make a bee-line for this educational toy–the mailbox will grow with your kids and last forever (I plan on keeping mine for the grandbabies)! (Recommended Ages: 4-6)
Why I love it: Dollhouses are so great for language development–kids play out all kinds of stories with a dollhouse. I like neutral dollhouses that can be transformed to whatever my kids can imagine! Our dollhouse has housed stuffed animals, Polly Pocket, Legos, Barbies, Little People, Littlest Petshop, Calico Critters, and classical dollhouse families (probably a few dinosaurs as well). My now 20-year-old daughter received our dollhouse when she was two–so it’s survived a lot of love and a lot of kids. We own Ryan’s Room Classic Wooden Dollhouse with 6 Rooms. And while it is obviously very durable, neutral, and large (also I don’t believe there is any assembly involved)–my critique is that the lower level can be a bit dark, with the center being a bit difficult to play in. If I had to purchase a dollhouse again, it would be a toss up between our beloved Ryan’s Room Dollhouse and Melissa and Doug’s Hi-Rise Wooden Dollhouse, which actually comes with some furniture and accessories. It looks a bit roomier and might be easier for preschoolers to play with–but either way, a dollhouse is perfect choice for your preschool (and early elementary) aged kiddos! (Recommended Ages: 2-7 years)
Why I love it: Learning carpets are so clever (and cute)! If you have boys, then like me, you probably have an endless supply of cars and trucks! These play rugs provide a great foundation for imaginative play with toy vehicles (without having to buy a bulky plastic track). In addition, my kids are inspired to build and create towns in and around their rug…You may end up with a large city (and mess)–but so much fun! (Recommended Ages: 2-8 years)
Why I love it: Honestly, how could I create a list of preschool toys and not include a train set?! Thomas the Tank Engine was such a quintessential part of my oldest son’s childhood–he may never love a gift more than the Thomas the Tank Engine track set he received for his 3rd birthday! We still have the track; we still have the trains…I will never get rid of this toy! So much good playing (learning) happens when building the track. It fosters creativity, problem solving, fine motor skills, and language development. The exact track we purchased 20+ years ago is no longer available–but this one (not an official Thomas track) is full of fun details. And of course–don’t forget to add a battery-powered train!! As a side note, we went years without having a train table–they are nice, but not necessary. I find that kids tend to get wild with their track building, and the creations may not always fit on the table! (Recommended Age: 3-8 years)
Blocks
Melissa and Doug Solid Wood Building Blocks
Why I love them: I love wooden blocks–especially ones that are unstained and larger in size. They are easy for kids to manipulate and provide open-ended play options. Younger children will enjoy the simple thrill of building. Later, kids use the blocks to create houses, beds, chairs and tables, ramps, and highways for their favorite toys. Blocks make a great gift for both boys and girls and are an excellent educational toy choice for a family gift to be shared. (Recommended Ages: 3-8 years)
Lego Duplo Caring for Animals at the Farm Set
Why I love it: Lego Duplos are great for small motor development, critical thinking, imaginative play, and language skills. My preschool age children were completely obsessed with animals–this adorable set has many favorites! Easily shared by several kids, the blocks and animals have provided hours of play for my kiddos. (Recommended Ages: 2-5 years)
Encouraging Play in Your Home
Young kids are learning all the time–play is such an important piece of early childhood development. A great educational toy is worth the time and money we invest in them. It’s easier and often tempting to hand even our youngest children an iPad or turn on the t.v. (I am guilty of this–not to say either is all bad, but the screen time adds up quickly!). And while convenient, way less messy, and sometimes cheaper…technology and screen time can never provide the same opportunities for growth and development that a quality educational toy encourages. You may end up with a lot of toys–that is ok! Your kids will have lots of memories of playing…the making of a magical childhood!
Please feel free to share your family’s favorite toys–I’m already busy making my wish list for birthdays and this coming Christmas!
With Love,
Jen xo
